The holidays are the BEST time of the year for meeting men!
Don't believe me? In the past few weeks, I've flirted in line at Starbucks, commiserated with fellow shoppers, ate my lunch with others enjoying seasonal music in the square, laughed at Christmas parties, and gotten a helping hand when my skates went out from under me at the ice rink. It's a FANTASTIC time of year for flirting!
Are YOU taking advantage of the holiday good cheer?
If you're normally too shy to start a conversation with a stranger, make a dare to yourself that you'll try to break the ice with someone standing next to you in line or at a party. The holiday spirit puts a smile on everyone's faces, and you'll find that it's easier and more comfortable to flirt at this time of year than any other.
Plus, many other singles out there are looking for someone to ring in the New Year with. That "someone" could be you!
But unless you start flirting, you'll never know the possibilities that await you!!
If your flirting skills are rusty, make sure to check out the chapter in the original "How to Be Irresistible to Men" e-book on Flirting! Sarah Paul gives you a Guide for Beginning Flirts and teaches you the proper perspective you should take when flirting. Trust me: when you use Sarah's advice, flirting has never been so much fun!
But if being alone this holiday season is getting you down, here are 5 tips for ramping up your social life for the New Year.
- Make holiday parties an opportunity to mingle. It's so easy to get caught up chatting to friends that often an entire party can be over before you realize that you haven't managed to talk to anyone else!
- Host your own holiday gathering. If you're proud of your seasonal decorations or your baking talents, why not invite a few friends over for coffee this holiday season? Better yet, ask them to also bring along one or two of their friends that you don't know! There's no better way to sharpen your social skills than hosting small gatherings.
- Take a break. It's so tempting to give into the feeling that you've got to get EVERYTHING done before Christmas and spend the weeks before Christmas running around like a mad woman. STOP! Take a breath. Slow down. Look up. Smile. There's nothing more off-putting than franticness. Even worse, if you tell everyone how busy you are, no one will want to get in the way by inviting you to go for coffee or have a chat. On the other hand, the more relaxed and peaceful you are, the more you'll "invite" others to socialize with you.
- Revel in the feeling of holiday good cheer. There are so many times of the year when everyone seems to be grumpy. This is NOT one of them! Being a holiday "grinch" won't win you any friends. Instead, enjoy the spirit of this time of year and take time to appreciate the festive feeling that seems to extend through the shops, the malls, the offices, and the homes of the city. Your feelings of enthusiasm, pleasure, and joy will shine through how you act, talk, and move.
- Take some time for yourself. The holidays are not only a time to show how we feel about our loved ones: they're also a time to reflect on where we're going, what we've accomplished, and how we feel about ourselves. When you regularly take some time to go through your own personal "checkup," noticing how you feel and examining why you feel the way you do and what you might do to improve, you'll feel more centered, grounded, and at peace with yourself. These characteristics attract more people to us, especially men.
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