It sucks being alone on the holidays.  I’ve been there, perhaps you’ve been there (or are there now), and you probably know someone else who’s been there.  More than any other time in the year, it’s when you want to have someone special by your side.  It’s when you want to share the festive holiday spirit with someone you care about.  And it’s when a little physical intimacy will keep you both warm from the chilly night air…

Not there yet?  Well, it’s never too late to kick-start your romantic life.  If you’re serious about finding the girl of your dreams TODAY, then why not take advantage of the festive holiday spirit?  There are so many women out there who want a man by their side for Christmas and New Year’s.  YOU can be that man, if you’re willing to do what it takes to up your attraction meter.

The question then, is, What can you do to attract women in such a short amount of time?  How can you ensure that you find someone in time for the big celebrations December 25th and 31st?  Here are five great places to go to find women–and what to do when you meet them:

1. Throw a Holiday Party. This is a great way of attracting women. If there’s one thing that gets women emotionally and physically excited during the season of good cheer, it’s a man who surrounds himself with people during a festive time. It gives them the security that this man will show them a good time, and surround her with people so that she’s never alone.

An important lesson to remember with women: They need to have someone for special times like Christmas–even more than you! No woman wants to be alone, so by asserting yourself as the man who has lots of people around him, you automatically establish yourself as a desirable candidate. You tell her that if she hangs around you, she’ll never be alone.  Additionally, by throwing a fun, happy party, women automatically associate the positive vibes from the holiday season with YOU, and when you create that kind of emotional arousal, anything can happen.  It’s all about creating emotions in women, which I go into much detail in in my audio course.

So invite everyone you can think of–your friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances–to a holiday get-together. Make sure they invite someone.  Play some festive holiday music, have some holiday treats ready (cookies, eggnog, candy canes, etc.), and even dress up as Santa. Even better, REQUIRE women to wear a Christmas costume.  The naughtier they are, the better!

Have a "Naughty" and "Nice" list, and promise the girls a good spanking if they’re naughty. It may sound sexist, but believe me, women LOVE this: it allows them to be loose and have fun, something they’ll forever connect with you. Mix charm and attitude, and you surely won’t be alone that night or any other.  If things go well, you can always invite the girl to be "Santa’s Little Helper"…

2. At Stores and Malls. Hey, unless you’re the type who buys all your presents online, chances are you’re going to have to visit some stores to buy your loved ones some gifts.  And when you go to the mall, the department store, or even the little boutique, chances are you’ll see some attractive females while you’re there.  So take advantage of this!  It’s the one time in the year when you can get away with talking to complete strangers: women are in a festive mood and much more open to conversations with people they don’t know.  So take advantage!

Possible openers include: "Man, do you hate Christmas shopping as much as I do?", or if you want to neg a little, "Oh no, please!  Don’t tell me you’re buying someone THAT!"  Challenge your target a little bit; make her have to defend herself.  This, again, gets her emotionally aroused–even if it’s a negative emotion–which she’ll forever connect with you.  By saying something more than a compliment, something that forces her to respond, you create a literal chemical attraction:the emotions swirl in her brain, and she forever has an imprint of you that matches her to those emotions. 

So be ballsy and show that you’re not too interested, even a bit offended by her: "Wow, that <item> would be a great present for somebody who’s blind" or "Phew, I’m glad I’M not the person you’re shopping for!"  She may act offended, even a little angry, but if you stick to your guns, you’ll be conversing in no time and offering her someone who’d be fun to hang around during the holidays.

3. Spread Some Holiday Cheer on the Dance Floor. Teasing is a great way to show you don’t take girls too seriously. Dancing is a great way of showing you don’t take life too seriously. Even if you suck at dancing, the fact that you go out there and have a good time will impress women big-time. They love a man who can have fun and enjoy the holiday season. Going out there and having the time of your life dancing shows a woman that you will show her a good time during the cheery season. And in the end, that’s what they really want. So have fun, loosen up, and ask a woman to dance. If she sees you’re having a good time, believe me, she’ll want to join you–in more ways than one. Seriously!

4. Talk to Miss Lonely. While at any party–your own, a work party, a club-hosted holiday party, whatever–be sure to take advantage of my old "Love Actually" lesson: NOBODY wants to be alone during the holidays! So if you see a girl standing/sitting by herself or looking miserable at a holiday party, be the "knight in shining armor" who goes up to her and cheers her up. Tell her a joke, comment on the party, even tease her with "C’mon, it’s the Christmas season, you can’t possibly be sitting here all by yourself!" Women love a man who cheers them up, and if you can take her from a negative state of mind to a positive one, believe me, she won’t forget that. Just be the man who lifts her mood, and you’ll be sure to see her again.

5. Use the Mistletoe/Midnight! Finally, never underestimate the power of the mistletoe and the strike of midnight on New Year’s. Both are amazing props for setting up a first kiss. They work especially well with women you’ve had at least a few minutes of quality chat with.

You won’t want to use the prop right away–build up the suspense for an especially good kiss–but once you sense things are going well, "conveniently" position yourselves under the Mistletoe. Don’t even hide the fact that it’s an obvious ploy; play it up: "WOW, we’ve somehow managed to land ourselves under the mistletoe. How did THAT happen?" or "Well, congratulations, you’ve managed to trap me under the mistletoe.  I knew you were trouble." Believe me, if you add enough humor and charm–and you don’t need a lot to succeed–then women will be glad to comply.

And more importantly, you’ll have a very happy holidays!

Of course, if you’re truly serious about making sure this New Year is better than all the other ones, make a commitment to changing your life NOW.  Don’t resolve to make just the first few weeks better…make EVERY day a winning, successful one.  Do it with my special "How to Attract Women" course, yours for less than the price of a night out on New Year’s!  It’s all available, for instant download, NOW.

Ever heard of David DeAngelo?  If you’re familiar with the seduction community, then you’ve probably seen his name.  He’s the "guru" behind such phrases as "cocky funny," "attraction is not a choice," and one of my personal favorites, "Different in a preferential way."  He’s also the author of "Double Your Dating," and the host of the amazing  "Interviews with Dating Gurus" audio series.  Basically, he’s a guy who’s gone from "average chump who can’t get girls" to "relationship oracle."  The big question is, Should you buy his product?

Unlike a lot of other guys out there, DeAngelo didn’t become a seduction master overnight, just by throwing tips and tricks at the wall and seeing what stuck.  DeAngelo actually took the time to get to the root of why he wasn’t attracting females, the same thing I say is the key to a man’s success with anything: INNER GAME.  As he writes, "When I made the decision to get this part of my life handled, I decided that instead of trying to start with an angle…that I would like to learn in a way that gave me power to act with just my personality and presentation.  In other words, I wanted to make this part of who I was rather than a ‘trick.’"

One thing you realized as you read DeAngelo’s book is that there is so much more to the art of attracting women than just techniques and gaming.  There’s a whole world of self-improvement and self-mastery that one needs to achieve to truly succeed with women and life.  There’s neurolinguistic programming, attitudes,
mindsets, frame control, inner states: fascinating, brilliant information that DeAngelo explains in detail.  He truly follows what I call "ABL": Always Be Learning.  By opening your mind to new things every day, you open doors to personal success and self-esteem you never knew possible.  In fact, by embracing inner game techniques, says DeAngelo, succeeding with women becomes natural for you, which is a sharp contrast to the products a lot of pick-up artists and other "experts" sell.  A lot of guys will tell you you just need to ACT alpha, or BE someone you’re not.  But that doesn’t really solve the problem, does it?  Because you’re still unhappy with who you are, and women notice that.  They’re turned off by your insecurity and fakeness.

But DeAngelo doesn’t recommend being someone you’re not; he recommends being the best person you can be.  DeAngelo dedicated himself to learning everything he can about mind frames, skills, and attitudes: the keys to success, and truly fascinating keys, at that.  He recommends every kind of motivational book from "Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway" to "Think and Grow Rich," by Napoleon Hill.  This is important, because as he says, you can never know enough about success.  "Keep improving all the time, even if it’s the SMALLEST DETAIL."  There’s always something you can do better…how you respond to a female asking you for a light, how you walk into a bar, how you handle rejection–EVERYTHING.  In this book, DeAngelo takes you through some deep stuff that will truly set you up for success far beyond just female attraction, because it will be ingrained in you.  Flirting and approaching won’t be lines you have to remember; they’ll become natural extensions of your personality.

Of course, "Double Your Dating" isn’t just about mindsets and attitude: it’s really about what things turn women on, where to go, how to talk, how to react: in short, how to successfully interact with females.  DeAngelo takes you through common problems of insecurity, neediness, self-doubt, shyness, and other common problems, and specifically how to overturn them.  He tells you how to catch beautiful women’s attention by wearing the right clothes and positioning yourself the right way, what to say to bitchy women, how to reverse situations so that YOU look like the catch, and most interesting of all, the six things that attract women.

For example, one of the things women instinctually love is exclusivity: playing hard to get, already having a girlfriend, that sort of thing.  DeAngelo lists a number of ways to make yourself seem exclusive, including having snappy responses, pretending to not be interested, acting unpredictably, and really fascinating, "short-circuiting the all-annoying testing mechanism." Curious how that works?  Then definitely check out the book.

There are a lot of tips David gives that one wouldn’t normally think of.  For example, always ending conversations first.  This has two advantages: first, it says you’re not a needy guy, and you have things to do.  Secondly, it gives YOU control of every
situation.  As he writes: "If you start doing this with EVERY call, EVERY meeting, and EVERY conversation, you will be blown away by the responses you’ll get.  You’ll have women say, ‘What?  But we’re having so much fun…!’, ‘Well, when can I see you again?’, or ‘Don’t you like me?’"

It’s different stuff, but as DeAngelo says, "In the mating game, it pays to be different in an ATTRACTIVE way."  How do you do that?  DeAngelo explains in great detail how doing things like treating a bitchy women with attitude and control of the situation, instead of apologizing and obeying her commands, will set her heart on fire and instantly separate YOU from 99% of the other guys out there…even the tall, rich, and handsome ones!

Truly mind-blowing stuff.  But, is "Double Your Dating" right for you?

Besides the fascinating e-book and three free books on sex and attraction that will open your mind to areas of attraction and self-improvement you probably would have NEVER thought of before, you also get some really good audio CDs.  These are interviews with guys who have "made it," who understand the principles behind female attraction.  You get to hear big names like Style, Mystery, Carlos Xuma, and my personal favorite, Ken Kenny.  We’re talking the heavyweights of the seduction community here.  DeAngelo gives a forum for you to hear the best of the best information out there. He’s like an Oprah of the dating world!  To me, that’s a good thing that’s worth checking out for the amount of quality learning alone!

So you get the e-book, three bonus books, a free double "Interview with Dating Gurus" CD-set, as well as a free month’s subscription to the "Dating Gurus" interview series.  Not bad for just $19.97, isn’t it?

I mean, there are lots of dating books, seminars, and CDs out there. Why pick up DeAngelo’s?  Well, in the end I feel his groundbreaking self-mastery concepts and ability to provide you with fascinating advice from dozens of other gurus (even female ones!), to be the difference.  You can buy other products that will tell you what it means if a girl’s head leans to the left, and what it means if she leans to the right.  You can learn techniques that feel unnatural and forced; maybe they’ll work one or two nights.  That kind of stuff is okay, but you’ll quickly forget it and it will only really help you for, maybe, one good night.

What you really want is a resource that can change your attitudes and approaches to women FOREVER.  Not for one night of success, but for many.  You want a resource that will make your attraction skills and techniques a natural part of you, something that springs automatically from your powerful inner game.  I would say that "Double Your Dating" IS that resource.

So if you’re keen to learn more, find out how to attract women now at the Double Your Dating website.

Enjoy!

When it comes to attracting women, sometimes you have to think like a marketer.  You have to consider your "packaging," and the way you present your "product."  That means you have to take the time to think like the "consumers"–women–and know what they want.  Because when it comes to the world of female attraction, the customer is always right!

Remember that before they can get to know the "real" you, women only have visual cues on which to judge your worthiness: your clothes, your height, your demeanor, your status.  We men are just like any other product: we are immediately judged by the packaging.  Whereas evolutionary science suggests that men consider only youth and physical attractiveness to select a mate or sex partner, women need more than that.  Their evolutionary hard-wiring, determined to find the best mate for them and their unborn children, requires them to look a little bit deeper for a worthy husband or sex partner.  This is where we men have to put ourselves in the shoes of our "customers" if we want to sell our "product."

One evolutionary scientist, Dr. David Buss, did a study of over 10,000 people in 37 countries, on six continents, and found that women value men based on three big things: ambition, status, and financial resources.  Similarly, relationship expert, Andrea P. Roberts, suggests that women determine a man’s worthiness based on 3 "T’s", or "takais," a Japanese word that represents good qualities: education level, physical height, and salary level.   Quite a bit deeper than having a nice ass and big breasts, isn’t it?

Okay, some of you may be thinking: Well, I’m not tall, and I’m not rich.  Now what?!?

The good news is, height and wealth are only things that women pre-qualify men on; it’s not the be-all and end-all of attraction.  It’s similar to saying you want a really expensive car…but that doesn’t mean you’d never drive a Honda. As Roberts writes, "even an ordinary man doesn’t have to be exceptionally rich or powerful to make women want him. It’s all a matter of the women’s perspective if he ends up taller, smarter or wealthier than them." 

Got that?  It’s all about perspective: how you market yourself successfully to a woman.  Hey, lots of people know that Apple computers are better than PC’s, but that doesn’t seem to stop Microsoft, does it?  So if you’re short, or of average income, but present your positive traits in the right way, it won’t matter: you’ll become the Windows of the male market!  As Roberts writes, "Think of Napoleon, Mickey Rooney or Groucho; they are humorous, artistic or politically powerful men who wooed women into their beds and, horizontally, the height issue wasn’t a factor. Polite and persuasive persistence is the best trait."

So what we have are five areas that we must appeal to if we want to spark an initial attraction from women.  After that, it’s up to you to show what a great guy you are: let her know you’re special, unique, one of a kind.  That’s what ultimately separates the haves from the have-nots.  Even good-looking, tall guys will strike out if they lack other qualities women look for, such as humor, courage, and love. 

So don your thinking caps, guys: It’s time to think like marketers and adopt the 5 things women immediately look for in men!

1. Ambition

From an evolutionary stand-point, this one makes complete sense.  Think cavemen and cave women in the Stone Age, with some of the weaker cavemen seeking a higher station in the power hierarchy.  Who do you think the cave women went for?  The men who hobbled along meekly in the bottom of the order…or the men who strived for more and sought a higher place in the pack?  Much of a woman’s desire to be with a man who is ambitious and seeks success, is based simply on survival: The more powerful the man, the more likely she’ll survive and live well.  From a logical standpoint, going for a guy who has no ambition means she’s likely to live in poverty and struggle.  Not too appealing, is it?  You can’t really blame females for thinking like this; no one wants to stay at the bottom of the pack living in misery.

So you have to present yourself as a guy who’s not satisfied with his station in life.  This is good for both you and her.  If you’re making $7 an hour at the gas station and are content to stay there, not many women are going to be attracted to you.  But if you’re making $7/hour and working your ass off to become an owner of a gas station, taking business classes at night so you can learn how to run a business: well, suddenly you’re not so bad-looking!  Believe me, women will give men a chance, they want to–as long as they see potential.  If you’re headed somewhere, they’ll deal with the short-term struggles knowing that you’re on a path to greatness.  More importantly, by being ambitious and aiming for more, you’re helping yourself out.  It’s a win-win situation.

2. Status

Again, evolutionary hardwiring makes women naturally attracted to men of high status; it’s very much a comfort and survival issue.  High status=good living for herself and her children.  Fortunately, projecting high status does not have to be difficult; according to Roberts, "Wearing the right clothes, especially nice shoes, can go a long way toward portraying wealth. Taking on the unshaken or unworried attitude of wealthy men can project affluence. Hesitant, irresolute, bland men come across as having lower incomes and being less reliable."  Got that?  You don’t have to be a powerful, articulate man yourself–you just have to project similar qualities.

Some of these qualities include:

* Not putting yourself down.  Without being a braggart, talk positively about your accomplishments, job position, and possessions–even if they’re not much.  If you treat things as a big deal, other people will, too.  Conversely, if you downplay your accomplishments and character, women will, too.  Your attitude is contagious, so remember to paint things in the right light.

* Act confidently around women.  Don’t let women assume a higher status than you.  Show them that YOU are the one with higher status.  You can do this in a number of ways, including not acting impressed by a woman’s beauty or career (say, she’s a model); teasing her about her clothes or makeup; and asking her to buy you a drink.  Chances are she won’t, but just by acting like you deserve it, you raise your status!  She’s not such an untouchable goddess in the end. 

Remember, as well, that women want to EARN a man; they relish the challenge of luring in a winning catch.  So play hard to get: talk to other girls, say you’ve got to be leaving just when things are going well, don’t immediately ask for her phone number.  If you act like a man who can have his pick of women, then chances are, you will!

* Knowing people of high status.  This is a great one.  Get to know the people of power: the club owners, bartenders, maitres’d.  Position yourself as a sociable person who’s in the know.  When a woman sees you getting special treatment and chatting with high-status people, she’ll see right away that you’re someone of importance.  It will also reduce the importance of the other factors, such as height, money, and ambition; immediately you’ve proven yourself valuable.

* Wearing nice clothes.  "When a man is well dressed," writes communications expert, Leil Lowndes, "it signifies his ability to provide for her offspring." You don’t have to be rich and powerful to wear nice clothes.  You just have to show that you’re a man of quality, a man headed towards somewhere who pays attention to dress (something women cna never get enough of).  Formal clothes, such as a suit, convey that you are serious about success; you desire good things.  So just by wearing a nice sports jacket, dress shirt, and slacks, you let a woman know you’re a man with status.  You’re a man who could provide for her and her children.

Colors in clothing and jewelry are vital: Studies show that red, burgundy, and black clothes convey high status.  So get yourself some nice black suits or formal wear, a red shirt, and one of my favorites (and girls’!), a sleek burgundy button-down shirt.  They all convey regality and strength.  In the case of red, you have the added bonus of sexuality, power, and dominance: definitely good qualities to portray!  Go and purchase a nice red polo shirt, or red tie for your suit. 

If you enjoy white clothes–the color of purity and cleanliness–then make sure you work on your TAN.  White clothes against a dark backdrop make you look exotic, sexy, and well-travelled.  You don’t have to be an jet-setting playboy, to look like one!

* Winning body language.  Women judge men by the way they move and position themselves; it’s part of their superior communication skills to know what a man is thinking or feeling based on his body language.  So, position yourself in the right way: don’t slouch, sit upright, gaze at her knowingly, lean into her to initiate intimacy.  I’ve got a great column on body language that will teach you the right ways–and the wrong ways–to project high status.

3. Financial Resources

According to Matthew Fitzgerald, author of "Sex-ploitation," "Studies with college coeds show that when shown photographs of men dressed in high-status uniforms (suits, ties, expensive watches, etc.) and low-status uniforms, these women would be significantly more willing to enter into relationships with the more expensively-attired males regardless of the man’s physical appearance. To a woman, attraction is simple: green is very good-looking."

Okay, so not every guy has money for expensive suits and watches, and materialism may not be part of your game.  However, if you want to impress women, one of the fastest ways is by wearing snazzy clothes, sporting nice shoes (girls LOVE shoes!), and driving an expensive car.  Especially when it comes to designer brands, women are VERY keen at spotting high-quality products.  It’s just part of their nature; with expensive possessions come high status and ambition, and a more comfortable lifestyle.  Again, this all comes from their instinctual drive for survival and prosperity for themselves and their children.  By owning the best, you become the best.  At least on the surface.

For guys who don’t want to live such a shallow existence, never fear.  As Roberts writes, "Remember; money is just an energy that represents some emotion for women. Money is equivalent to affection, and perhaps gives them a sense of freedom, security and power. You can substitute money for feelings. For example, if she likes the freedom she gets from having money, you could ramble around in a motor home on hardly any cash and she’ll be happy."  In the end, it’s comfort that women want, and money can only give so much of that.  I know many women who passed up on pretentious, wealthy men for ones who weren’t rich on possessions but wealthy in love and care. 

Ultimately, if you want true love it’s up to you to find women who share the same goals and values.  If money and status aren’t the most important things in life for you, don’t chase the girls who do prioritize those things.  Don’t go for the shallow, bitchy types who only judge a man by how much he can spend on her.  Read my blog on choice to gain a greater understanding of the importance of choosing only women who fit YOUR purpose,  direction, and values.

4. Educational Level

Knowledge really is power, and on top of that, it’s an aphrodisiac!  Gone are the days when being smart was acquainted with being a nerd; now, knowledge and intelligence are your friends.  It’s the easiest way to money, and the easiest way to success.  So show it off a little.  Let her know your TALENTS, your interests, your areas of special knowledge.  As Roberts writes, "Women are drawn to experts like…Bill Gates and Chris Rock because they’re experts in their industries."  Neither of those guys is particularly good-looking, but they’re good at what they do, and parlay their knowledge into success, which drives women wild.

A guy who’s an expert is one who is clearly successful and of higher status.  At the very least, having a special knowledge means you have the TOOLS for success, and can provide intellectual stimulation for a girl (which, unless she’s a bimbo with an IQ of 70, is quite important for women).   Additionally, just being in school is a great way to show off your knowledge: "If you’re in school, not only are there more women available, but you’ve already demonstrated to them that you’re getting educated. Otherwise, it’s up to you to come across as reliable and credible without making her feel dumb."

5. Physical Aptitude

Physical height alone is an easy way to catch a woman’s attention, but it’s not the only thing.  Again, evolutionary mechanics come into play here.  A man who is tall, strong, and athletic is more likely to fend off threats to the woman and her children.  He is also more likely to have a strong immune system, which will further aid their chances of survival.  So, you can’t blame women too much for valuing these things: in the world of female attraction, it really is a survival of the fittest.  Those who show women they are in shape and healthy are much more likely to survive the dating game!  Ergo, athletes, bouncers, firemen get the girls.

What does this mean for guys who aren’t very fit or tall?  It means, for your benefit, you should get in shape.  Build some muscles (you don’t have to be a bodybuilder to look good), improve your heart-rate, learn how to defend yourself with a martial arts class or boxing.  A guy who women think can protect them and pass on good genes to their children, is an attractive one. 

As for height, it’s all a matter of perspective.  We’ve all seen short guys with tall beautiful women.  Neil Strauss himself, the best of the best pickup artists, is just 5’6" yet gets more beautiful women than we can imagine.  How?  By believing in himself.  By positioning himself as a man of high status.  By not bowing down to women of greater height or beauty.  And by being a guy women know is fun and energetic to be around.  In short, he’s got INNER GAME, and when you have that down, nothing can stop you.  You may even find yourself dating women who are taller than you!

But remember, presenting a man who’s healthy and strong, willing to stand up for himself and the girl in a fight: that’s the kind of guy who women will go for, regardless of height.  Did you know that men with strong immune systems give off pheromone scents that women are instinctually attracted to?  If you pay attention to what you eat and go to the gym on a regular basis, you’re going to build your immune system up, and attract women without even trying!  So do it, and watch the number of dates you get, soar.

In the end, men are like books: women judge them by their covers, so it’s up to us to show them what’s really inside.  Make your cover captivating, and you’ll become a "best-seller" in no time!

"The Approach" is one of the most popular subjects discussed in the online seduction scene.  It’s no wonder: How well you approach a girl, especially one you really like, will make or break the rest of the relationship.  In fact, a relationship doesn’t exist if you don’t know how to talk to a girl from the very beginning.  You can be the best guy in the world, a guy girls can only dream of—but if you don’t know how to make an impact and create a memorable impression, well, you’ll never talk to anyone. 

But there’s another approach that’s not discussed nearly as much by relationship experts and bloggers, and yet it’s just as important–maybe more important–as the step-by-step process of talking to a chick.  I’m talking about your approach to life–your mental handle on what comes your way, good or bad.  Because if you don’t know how to deal with rejection, anger, feelings of inferiority–all those negative feelings we all get at one stage or another–then your chances of dealing with women are going to be, well, nil.

Let me ask you something: What do you do when a woman doesn’t want to talk to you?  Do you go back to your friends, bitch about what a cow that girl was, what a crap bar this is, sulk all night?  Do you send out negative vibes to people, so they don’t even want to talk to you because you’re so pessimistic?  Do you vow never to talk to girls again?

Or do you take rejection in stride?  Do you look at the girl as a challenge, at acceptance as something that wasn’t meant to be?  Do you see the bright side in not talking to the girl, as an open door to talking to someone better?  Do you tell yourself, "Hey, it’s okay, her loss" and move on to the next girl, talking to her with energy and positivity?

Believe me, the second approach is a lot better than the first.  Not only for yourself personally, but for your chances…women will see a LOT more in someone who’s handled rejection well, who picks himself up and moves on to the next challenge, than in someone who quits, someone who bitches about life.  Girls don’t want quitters, they don’t want guys who air dirty laundry and complain about everything.  Doesn’t matter how good-looking or rich you are; eventually your negative approach to life is gonna cost you. 

What all girls want is a guy who’s determined.  He may have dealt with rejection, may have tasted defeat, even failed a number of times–but it doesn’t get to him.  He plows on.  He BELIEVES IN HIMSELF.  That’s the kind of attitude EVERYONE wants to be around.  It’s a tide that lifts all boats.

Next time you go out, try to present an approach to life that says, "I love a challenge, I love talking to girls, bring it on!"  Watch as your positive vibe is rubs off on people.  I always say, Enthusiasm is contagious, so if you’re making people feel better about themselves and improving thier approach to life, you’re gonna reap the rewards.  Your social network is gonna explode.  Guys are gonna wanna hang out with you, GIRLS are gonna wanna hang out with you.  And when you’ve got friends, even simple acquaintances, you’ve got people who really want to see you succeed.  They’re gonna be on the lookout for you; they’re gonna want to help you find a great woman. 

Give it a shot.  When you’re energetic and cheering people up, people want to hang around you.  GIRLS will want to hang around you; you’ll find you don’t even have to try!  It really can be that easy.

All it depends on is your approach to life.

Now…how are you gonna deal with a challenge?