How to Improve Your Social Skills

From James:

What's up? Thanks for joining me. In today's edition, exclusive to members and newsletter subscribers of 000Relationships.com, you'll get just a sampling of my many social skills that YOU need to learn to attract the woman of your dreams. Learn about cocky comedy, push-pull, story-telling, and more.

But if you're really serious about learning the essentials, then go to the place where you can become a social skills master: How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM. It's got all 12 skills you need to know, the most effective body language and conversation techniques, as well as the inner game lessons you need to make yourself the prize every girl wants. Don't delay--get my Attraction Course today!

Meanwhile, here's my lesson.

It’s a fact: If you want to score with hot babes, you’ve gotta be the master of your domain. You have to master your social skills.

In today's lesson, I'll be discussing 5 social skills you need for interacting successfully with women. They include:

I teach many more, powerful social skills in my How to Be Irresistible to Women Premium interactive audio course, which you can find at www.000relationships.com/towomen/. In the meantime, let's get started with today's lesson, "Social Studies: Social Skills You Need to Succeed with Women."

When you go out to a club, a bar, or any social situation, you aren’t just showing off your looks. In fact, as Joseph Matthews says, "The single biggest most limiting belief guys have that keeps them from succeeding: the belief that LOOKS MATTER." Much more important in attracting women is to show how well you interact with others–men AND women alike. You can be the best-looking guy in the world, but if you can’t muster anything to say to a group of people, or don’t know how to hold their interest and make them WANT to get to know you, then you’re not going to attract women. Period.

Because while men are attracted visually, women are attracted to much deeper things in men, including how well he communicates and relates to people. It’s part of their evolutionary hard-wiring: women are built to interact and socialize with other people, to build connections and relationships in their roles as nurturers, wives, and event organizers.

The good news is, if you do know how to socially interact with people, nothing can stop you from attracting the gorgeous, high-quality women you desire! Even if you’re short, bald, fat, ugly, or all four, if you know HOW to make people laugh, HOW to captivate an audience’s interest, and HOW to build and share connections and relationships with people…then you’ll have no problem attracting gorgeous women!

With that said, let's look now at the Top 5 social skills for impressing and attracting women everywhere:

1. Cocky Comedy–specifically, busting someone’s balls and teasing.

As I describe in great detail in my 30-lesson attraction audio course, humor is one of the most powerful weapons around for building attraction. But the purpose of humor isn’t to make people laugh; it’s to show you have control and an ability to make people feel better in your presence. A guy who makes people laugh improves their moods and makes them want him to hang around. On top of that, they are more likely to recommend him to their friends-–a truly awesome power to hold.

Using humor for attraction can be done in several ways, but the best are the funny ways that show that you are ABOVE her and don’t NEED her. Generally this means being a bit of a jerk and breaking a girl’s balls, especially in front of her friends.

One example is teasing a girl in front of her friends. A guy who has the balls to say, "Man, does this girl EVER shut up?" or "Is she always this annoying?" to a girl’s group of friends, commands awesome power. He will quickly fit into the group, make them laugh, and come off as a very cool, attractive guy, all in one.

Why? Because doing something ballsy and somewhat rude makes people remember you. People are bored everyday: in the morning they wake up, have a boring breakfast, drive their monotonous commute to work, get bored at work, drive the same monotonous commute back home, eat their boring dinner, watch their boring television, hang out with the same boring people, go to bed, wake up, and do it all over again.

They’re looking for something new…so it’s YOUR job to break their state! Give them something different, something funny, something that makes them say, "I can’t believe he just said that!" Breaking a girl’s balls–pointing out her ridiculous skirt, or some weird personality trait–takes people out of their element, makes them laugh, and creates an emotional connection to you. They remember you, and want to see you again.

Most importantly, they want their girlfriends to see you again! So if you can impress one girl in a group, you can impress them all! And that’s the quickest way to the sexual intimacy and attraction you so desire.

For more detailed information on how to use these skills for social mastery–and high-powered, sexual attraction–check out "How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM."

2. Story-Telling

Work on your story-telling as much as possible. A guy who can captivate an audience with awesome stories that draw listeners in impresses the HELL out of women and makes himself very attractive. It’s a combination of power, intelligence, and social maneuvering, all in one: a very attractive combination.

But you don’t have to have travelled around the world or scaled Mt. Everest to have an impressive story; what it all comes down to is how you present your story. That means your tonality, pitch, volume: all kinds of ways in which you talk. Great story-tellers take an otherwise boring tale and make it spell-binding.

What are some good stories to talk about? Generally, funny ones are great, such as the two chicks you saw cat-fighting over a man at a bar, but you can also talk about something simple and recent. For example, relate something to current events. The Iraq war in the news? Talk about your buddy who survived an attack by Iraqi rebels but came home with one leg. These will make women cry and feel closer to you, and when you build that bond, you're in, man. Make a woman teary and emotional and you're IN.

For more great information on how to tell a compelling story, check out Renee Grant-Williams’ excellent book, Voice Power. Or listen to my lessons on projecting value and conversation skills, available in my "HTBITW Premium" interactive audio course. I go into detail about the best stories to talk about, AS WELL AS how to use your voice and body language for maxium effect. It's available at 000relationships.com/towomen/.

3. Being the Center of People’s Universe

Girls don’t want someone who kisses people’s asses. They want a guy in control, a guy whose universe only revolves around one person: HIMSELF. An attractive guy doesn’t need other people for happiness and validation; he only needs himself.

As David DeAngelo says,

"A woman wants a man who is strong enough to attract her, hold her in his orbit, and keep her there … but the thing that really keeps her 'attracted' (feeling attraction) is the tension that comes from not quite being 'all the way there.'"

That is, you have to be able to bring a group of people closer … but not too close. Keep a girl curious, keep her wanting more. This can be done through teasing and pushing her away – slap her wrist or make jokes about her in front of her friends. Tell her to stop following you: "Man, stop stalking me, you’re weirding me out!"

Even better, walk away just when things are getting good. Say you have to go check on your friends or go somewhere else.

For example, if you’ve told a great story that has everyone laughing, leave just when they’re all cracking up. Show that your universe is so big that you have bigger things to do. This will give people – particularly your target – time to reflect on what a cool guy you are,and make them come chasing to hear more. They’ll beg you to stay, but insist that you have to go. This will make them want you all the more, and have your target chasing after you and throwing herself at you. Attraction gold!

4. Push-Pull

"Push-pull" is a great method: push a girl down, deny her what she wants, only to raise her up again and make yourself more attractive in the process. It's a classic sales technique used in selling gym memberships, among other things: make a person who, say, needs to lose weight, feel like crap, feel like he or she HAS to join a gym or he'll continue to live a miserable existence.

Bring them to such a low place that the only way out of that misery is to do something drastic about their condition. That's where you come rushing in with the solution: YOU, or in the case of a gym, a pricey membership.

Just like a gym membership salesman has the power to bring a prospective client out of his rut, so YOU have the power to make a girl feel better by hanging around and hooking up with you. One way to do this is to really get along well with a girl, then, just as things are getting good, tell her you have to go. Leave her alone for a good hour or so she feels really down. Then come back to her, when she's looking alone and miserable. This offers her the hope of a better night: YOU, all of a sudden, are the prize, the better emotional state, she's looking for. And the rest will take care of itself.

This brings us to my final point: being the prize. Treating yourself like the prize, the "catch" that women want, is THE most important lesson you can learn in attracting women. In my How to Be Irresistible to Women Premium attraction course I give you not just one lesson but SIX purely on building your identity, self-confidence, and belief in yourself. I teach you how to adopt this powerful mindset, and making your self-belief so strong that you can attract ANYONE - even Hollywood celebrities and models! It's worth checking out, not only for attracting hot women but also for achieving other goals, such as career and financial targets. Adopting the attitude that you are the man, that you can get anything you want, will in fact lead to just that.

Additionally, find out all about more vitally important social skills in the "Projecting Value" and "How to Impress the Hell Out of Every Woman You Meet" lessons, available on my spectacular How to Be Irresistible to Women Premium audio course. Along with these lessons you’ll learn the essentials of story-telling, cocky comedy, listening power, body language, and the other essential social skills YOU need to sexually attract women everywhere.

This is great stuff that you can’t miss out on. So why not get started today? Become a master of social skills, and see your popularity and attraction soar. Because it's YOUR turn!

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