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Welcome to my "How to Be Irresistible to Men" Newsletter Series! If you are looking for the greatest gold-mine of attraction, seduction, dating, and relationship advice for women ever crammed into a newsletter series, then read on! 
Amy Waterman
Host of "How to Be Irresistible to Men"
by Amy Waterman
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You're found a fantastic guy. You really really don't want to do anything to mess it up. What should you do? Here are my 3 Top Tips to Keep a Relationship Going!
As women, we're raised to be comfortable with expressing our feelings. We share our emotions, opinions, reactions, and dramas with our friends, new acquaintances, even our pets! We're wise to the notion that it's better to let our emotions out than to keep them pent up inside. The only problem is this: our emotional overflows scare the dickens out of men.
In general, men don't like it when women get emotional. They feel acutely uncomfortable when women cry. It's not that they don't care: it's that they usually have no idea what to do. When you get upset and he can't fix it, he feels like he's failed. He may know logically that the storm will blow over, but that doesn't make him feel any better in the meantime.
You can't help the way you feel, but you can control where and when you express your feelings. In the initial stages of a relationship, avoid dumping your emotional distress onto him. Instead, keep relying on your friends, family members, and loved ones for the same emotional support they've always provided. You'll not only reassure them that your new man won't replace them in your affections, but you'll also continue to get the same understanding and reassurance that has encouraged you in the past.
It is going to take time for you and the new man in your life to develop deeper levels of trust, intimacy, and understanding. You may be tempted to rush the process along by divulging too much, too soon, but resist. The first stage of a relationship is about getting to know one another, seeing if you enjoy spending time together, and finding out if you're compatible. It's not about becoming instant soulmates!
If you're ever in doubt about what you should say or do, ask yourself the question: "If we broke up tomorrow and he told all his friends about this, would I be embarrassed?"
One of the female characteristics that men complain about the most is that women make everything more complicated than it should be. A man wants dinner; a woman wants to know what she feels like having, how long it will take to get there, whether they'll be late getting home, whether she should change clothes so that she's dressed appropriately, and so on. A man wants to buy his partner the gift she wants; she wants him to guess what she wants correctly, wrap it in a beautiful package, and surprise her at the perfect moment.
For his sake, keep things simple. Don't make him play guessing games to see if he understands you as well as he thinks. If you want him to do something, tell him outright. If there's something that's upsetting you, be frank. Although it may be fun for you to play the game of, "Guess why I'm upset with you," it's simply irritating for him. And if you want to know why he said or did what he did, ask him up front rather than analyzing it to death.
When you spend too much in your mind analyzing your relationship for where it's going or what it means, it stops being fun and starts becoming a means to an end. If there's one thing he doesn't want to be, it's a checked box in your life plan.
One secret that very few women know about men is that their deepest desire is just to make you happy. That's it. If a man feels like he can make you happy, he'll be the proudest man in the world. If he feels that nothing he does pleases you, he'll quickly find another woman he can please.
Sadly, in our desire to play hard to get, we often make things too hard for a man. Our indifference makes him feel like no matter what he does, it won't make a difference.
Guys want to do things to make you happy. In many cases, they'd rather do it for you than have you do it for yourself. Sure, you can drive yourself to the airport, fix your own kitchen faucet, and buy yourself expensive chocolates, but isn't it nicer when he does those things for you?
Let him make you happy, and be direct in telling him how. One great way is to simply ask him for help. If he's fantastic with computers and your machine is giving you trouble, why not ask him over to take a look at it? Then reward him with effusive thanks and his favorite treat of choice.
You don't have to worry that you're using him: instead, you're giving him an excuse to spend time with you, show off his talents, and feel rewarded by your admiration. It's simple, basic, and the best way to a man's heart.
Happy dating!
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