How to Attract Women

By James

According to relationship guru David DeAngelo, author of "Double Your Dating", "Attraction is not a choice." What does this mean? It means women are conditioned to be attracted to certain signals, traits, and physical characteristics. It is not that they CHOOSE to be attracted to bad boys, or athletes, or wealthy businessmen, but because evolution has conditioned them to be attracted to these types of men. Women do not always consciously think, "I bet THAT guy would produce healthy children!", but their minds are chemically wired to notice men of a certain type. So it is important that we men know what women are looking for. We cannot choose what they want; we instead just have to go along with what they need.

While it is important that we men know what women want in general, it is important to distinguish that different women want different things. That's why it's important that you have a strong sense of CHOICE. That is, know what you want in a woman, and don't settle for less than that. If you must have thin girls, don't bother with the heavyset ones. If you must have a sweet, down-to-earth girl, don't bother with the career-oriented ice queens. Etc, etc.

Too many guys are "attracted" to women who aren't even right for them. They're so down on themselves, so used to "bad luck" with women (which is really just them not realizing their inner power), that they SETTLE for girls who aren't right for them. That's not attraction; that's dis-traction: distraction from who you are, from facing your insecurities, from improving yourself as a man. It's unfair to you, and it's unfair to girls. You deserve the best, and so do they. Settling for girls is just that--settling, not going for the best.

In my How to Be Irresistible to Women audio course and e-book, you'll discover how to find the REAL you--the you you always wanted to be, the you you know you're capable of becoming. When you discover your potential, you won't settle for girls who aren't "good enough" or compatible enough for you. You'll get the ones you deserve. In my lessons on Choice, you can find out how to decide on what woman's right for you and how to get her by making impressions, improving your body language, and building confidence and control.

In the meantime, here are some great ways of attracting women:

1. Catch Her Attention

There are lots of great ways to do this, including peacocking, which is a popular term for dressing up in outrageous outfits and hair styles; being energetic; and using your popularity--the principle of social proof. When women see you socializing with bartenders, managers, and club/bar owners, this proves that you are popular--and desirable.

2. Make Impressions

A great way to attract a woman is to make a memorable impressions. It doesn't matter how good you look, how tall you are, how wealthy you are--all you have to do is leave a good memory of who you are. Make a woman remember you. You can do this in a number of ways, including:

• Asking how she is.
  A simple, "Hey, what's up?" in a relaxed tone goes a long way towards making a girl remember you. This is especially effective with retail clerks and waitresses.
• Teasing her.
  Show your confidence in yourself by joking about a girl's hair or occupation. You can say, "Wow, you put a lot of effort into that hairstyle, huh?" or if she says she's a model or dancer, say, "Huh, just a model, eh? Well, that's nice." Acting unimpressed, ironically, will make her impressed. Girls are used to having guys fawn over them, so to do the opposite of what she expects will go a long way, to your advantage.
• Joke about other guys.
  This is a great technique where you can use other guys' pickup failures to your advantage. If a guy says something really cheesy or stupid, just say to her, "Man, you must get that all the time." Or just go up to her and say, "See that guy over there? He's got the WORST BO in the world!"

Find out more methods, including how to make her laugh and tell great stories, by ordering my e-book now. You can start with the free How to Be Irresistible to Women six-part audio course and move from there.

3. Humor

As you can tell from the methods above, humor is great way of attracting women. Women just seem to love laughing, and when you think about it, you can't blame them: Who wants to be with a boring guy? Especially if they're thinking of settling down with a guy in a relationship, they want a guy who can keep things interesting, humorous, and not too serious. Humor does just that. Some great ways to make a girl laugh include:

• Self-Deprecation
  This is where karaoke is great--you can poke fun at yourself and be a clown. It shows you're comfortable with yourself, fun, and not too serious.
• Wit
  As long as you don't use it against her too much, wit can be a great thing. It shows intelligence and humor.
• Observational Humor
  Observing funny things like a clumsy waiter or a guy whose face looks like his dog's is a great way of making a girl laugh.
• Exaggeration
  Telling a great story and showcasing how ridiculous something was, is a surefire way to leave an impression. Having a lot of anecdotes ready to tell a girl is a great way of making an impression, and attracting her.

There are all kinds of ways to attract women; not enough can be written on the subject. But this should give you a start to your understanding of what women want. To find out more, check out my ebook on how to attract women. See you...on the other side!

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James
Author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women"
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